I have heard the phrase many times: treat them mean, keep them keen. This is a great motto for life, especially if you want to stay a bachelor/spinster all your life.
It's not hard to understand why being mean to the opposite sex is counterproductive. If you're mean to someone it usually pisses them off. This usually ends up in you getting rejected. The other person figures out people like you are worth avoiding, and the "sea of plentiful fish" becomes more like the "ocean of aggressive sharks". Not good for the mean business.
I honestly thought there was more to it than that, but it's so obvious. I've found great success in being a sweet, friendly guy who listens. I know a few other guys and girls who have used that strategy to their ultimate success too.
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You also believe in yourself and your own self worth. You don't need to be a male pig to impress anyone with your masculinity or an arrogant asshole to prove that you're better than others. Those are some of the things I admire most about you. I wish other guys out there were as comfortable in their own skins as you are and felt that it was OK to be sweet and friendly and not feel that it emasculates them in some way. Keep preaching it!
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